SirMatthew
@thepansybastard
Active 9 years, 5 months ago
I changed my name back to SirMatthew from ThePansyBastard as I think it sometimes confuses people and it might be taken as offensive. It was actually an epithet hurled at me because I’m a gay man who LOVES flowers and was in the act of crossing two daylilies when the name was called out to me. It certainly disarmed them when I laughed! I […] View
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SirMatthew posted an update 10 years, 3 months ago
I changed my name back to SirMatthew from ThePansyBastard as I think it sometimes confuses people and it might be taken as offensive. It was actually an epithet hurled at me because I’m a gay man who LOVES flowers and was in the act of crossing two daylilies when the name was called out to me. It certainly disarmed them when I laughed! I began to use that name wherever I could online. I embrace all of what makes me ME!